A Family Site · Est. 2017

HoffmanSakhibova Family

An architect, an economist, their son, and a Grand Champion English Setter — building products, raising a family, and chasing big ideas from Dushanbe to Boston to San Francisco.

Our Story

It started with coffee & croissants

Boston, early 2017. A cold winter day, a coffee shop, and two people about to change each other's lives.

Their story begins in Boston at the start of 2017. Nargis — an economist from Tajikistan — was wrapping up her MBA at MIT Sloan, and Patrick — an architect turned product leader — was working long hours at Superpedestrian, an urban mobility startup. After connecting on Bumble, they wound up meeting at Render Coffee on a cold February day.

Whether this was their first date or a pre-date is still undecided. Patrick had asked Nargis to dinner and an art talk near MIT, but she decided a casual coffee made more sense — just in case they didn't have anything in common.

We found ourselves deep in discussion about everything from the Hyperloop to Artificial General Intelligence and a mutual desire to create companies with a massive positive impact for the world.

Nargis arrived by Uber; Patrick by electric bicycle. Despite Nargis being late and Patrick being a bit high strung, they settled in with coffee and chocolate croissants. After that first day, the dates came in rapid succession — and the whirlwind ride hasn't stopped since.

They got engaged in 2018 and married the following September in Dushanbe, Tajikistan — Nargis's hometown — surrounded by family and friends from around the world. What started with coffee and croissants in Boston found its way home, half a world away. Today they're raising their son Mark in the San Francisco Bay Area, walking Archibald, and building the next chapter together.

Feb 2017
First coffee at Render Coffee, Boston
2017 – 2018
A whirlwind of shared adventures & ambitions
2018
Engaged — celebrated in California
Sep 2019
Married in Dushanbe, Tajikistan — Nargis's hometown
Today
Raising Mark, walking Archibald, building the future
Projects & Writing

Things we're building

Fun experiments, articles, simulations, and side projects — sometimes solo, sometimes together.

The Family

Builders, all of them

Architect → Product Leader · Meta
Patrick T. Hoffman
Product Manager at Meta on Core Ads Growth, focused on CPG, Retail, and Growth Verticals. Trained as an architect (Drexel B.Arch) and urban planner (Columbia M.S.), Patrick pivoted to tech through Singularity University — building products at Social Bicycles, Superpedestrian, Udacity, and Google before joining Meta in December 2024. Climber, cyclist, photographer, and product mentor.
Meta · Core Ads Growthex-Googleex-UdacityColumbia M.S.Drexel B.ArchSingularity U
Economist → Product Leader · Google
Nargis Sakhibova
Originally from Dushanbe, Tajikistan. PM at Google on Search Ads Generative Experience — pioneering LLM applications to create optimal text ads for modern search. Williams College grad (Economics & Psychology, full scholarship, Dean's List), MIT Sloan MBA, MIT Tech Conference president, MIT Hyperloop co-lead. Previously at Adobe, Analysis Group, Barclays, and USAID.
Google · Search Ads GenAIex-AdobeMIT Sloan MBAWilliams CollegeLLMs & Creative AITajikistan 🇹🇯
Son
Mark Hoffman
The newest Hoffman Sakhibova. Mark keeps Nargis and Patrick on their toes — and fills their days with joy, laughter, and a whole new kind of adventure.
Grand Champion English Setter
Archibald 🐾
Grand Champion show dog and the most distinguished member of the household. Follow his regal adventures at @englisharchibald.
8+
Years together
2019
Year married
Boston
Where it started
Adventures ahead
The Notebook

Things we find interesting

Curated ideas from Patrick's long-running blog at arcktip.com.

December 2014

Marketing All the Way Down

The idea that a man should spend a significant fraction of his annual income for an engagement ring originated de novo from De Beers marketing materials in the mid-20th century, in an effort to increase the sale of diamonds.

In the 1930s, they suggested that a man should spend the equivalent of one month's income on the engagement ring; later they suggested that he should spend two months' income on it.

It's one of the most remarkable examples of manufactured demand in history — a company didn't just sell a product, they invented the cultural norm that required people to buy it. The engagement ring tradition as we know it is, at its core, a triumph of marketing over material reality.

Read more on arcktip.com →

November 2014

Murals & Public Art

Some mid-week inspiration: a collection of breathtaking murals and public works of art on building facades from cities around the world.

What makes public art so powerful is that it meets people where they are — on the street, on the commute, in the places they pass every day without a second thought. A great mural transforms dead infrastructure into something alive.

For Patrick, with his architecture background, the intersection of art and the built environment has always been a subject of deep interest — the idea that buildings aren't just functional objects but canvases for civic expression.

Read more on arcktip.com →

August 2014

Mercenaries vs. Missionaries

John Doerr's framework on two kinds of entrepreneurs:

"Mercenaries are driven by paranoia; missionaries are driven by passion. Mercenaries think opportunistically; missionaries think strategically. Mercenaries go for the sprint; missionaries go for the marathon. Mercenaries focus on their competitors and financial statements; missionaries focus on their customers and value statements."

The distinction matters deeply in product management — and it's one Patrick returns to often when coaching founders and PMs. Are you building because you see a market gap, or because you feel the problem in your bones?

Read more on arcktip.com →

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